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May 31, 2017, 04:15:51 PM

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Ummm... I need Advice
« on: May 31, 2017, 04:15:51 PM »
So I am a high school student, and I their is this girl....
She has red hair, she is very kind, and very sweet.
I kind of have a... (*sigh*) ...crush on her, and I think she may like me back.
the only problem is I am a shitty high school dude who is kind of a loser.
I sometimes get these great jokes in, but I am a fucking terrible at talking to girls...
what should I do?

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May 31, 2017, 05:08:17 PMReply #1

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Re: Ummm... I need Advice
« Reply #1 on: May 31, 2017, 05:08:17 PM »
To be honest, the hardest part for me is keeping cool. It is easy to get nervous in these types of situations. I heard that confidence is important when it comes to girls and that faking confidence leads to actual confidence.
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May 31, 2017, 06:05:51 PMReply #2

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Re: Ummm... I need Advice
« Reply #2 on: May 31, 2017, 06:05:51 PM »
Be yourself.  Really really hard to be yourself sometimes when you don't have a lot of self-confidence.  But 90% of the time, if you try to pull off acting like you're "cooler" than you are, she's going to see through it and be less impressed.
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May 31, 2017, 06:07:45 PMReply #3

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Re: Ummm... I need Advice
« Reply #3 on: May 31, 2017, 06:07:45 PM »
I'll give you some advice I'm not an expert in this field by any means. First I would (if I was in your position obviously) try to hang out with her more, the more you do that the more you see her less as a girl (which is the stem of your nervousness everyone has it in high school don't worry) and more of a friend. That way you'll be able to have a normalized relationship with her. Then once you both get used to each other (don't wait too long) then you ask her out on a date or confess you have a crush on her. Then you go with the flow I guess.

I have a very hard time communicating this advice to people, I've never really had a hard time talking to girls. I just go with the flow of the conversation and the girl's personality. The only problem I truly have is; I do not like talking to new people(the story for that is for a different time) so it always seems like I have a problem talking to girls when that is not the case. So I hope this helped a little bit and please respond if you need me to elaborate on a couple things.

I would also go with Miller's advice as well.
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May 31, 2017, 07:56:08 PMReply #4

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Re: Ummm... I need Advice
« Reply #4 on: May 31, 2017, 07:56:08 PM »
Should I invite her to a movie?
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May 31, 2017, 08:30:42 PMReply #5

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Re: Ummm... I need Advice
« Reply #5 on: May 31, 2017, 08:30:42 PM »
Quote from: AdmrialThrawn2 on May 31, 2017, 07:56:08 PM
Should I invite her to a movie?
Nah do something that both of you can talk to each other maybe dinner or Ice cream.
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May 31, 2017, 08:33:28 PMReply #6

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Re: Ummm... I need Advice
« Reply #6 on: May 31, 2017, 08:33:28 PM »
Quote from: Mr.Puerto on May 31, 2017, 08:30:42 PM
Nah do something that both of you can talk to each other maybe dinner or Ice cream.

Or... you could invite her to a movie and have something to talk about.

Good conversation piece as it seems you don't have much to approach her with. Just pick something that you both like.
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Re: Ummm... I need Advice
« Reply #7 on: May 31, 2017, 08:38:29 PM »
Yup, if you do a movie, do movie & dinner (movie first) or movie and ice cream (again movie first) or movie and whatever after.  It's great to have something built-in to the date that you know you can talk about so being nervous about what to talk about is minimized.
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May 31, 2017, 09:11:23 PMReply #8

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Re: Ummm... I need Advice
« Reply #8 on: May 31, 2017, 09:11:23 PM »
Quote from: tlmiller on May 31, 2017, 08:38:29 PM
Yup, if you do a movie, do movie & dinner (movie first) or movie and ice cream (again movie first) or movie and whatever after.  It's great to have something built-in to the date that you know you can talk about so being nervous about what to talk about is minimized.
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May 31, 2017, 09:22:16 PMReply #9

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« Reply #9 on: May 31, 2017, 09:22:16 PM »
Quote from: Mr.Puerto on May 31, 2017, 09:11:23 PM
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May 31, 2017, 10:50:50 PMReply #10

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Re: Ummm... I need Advice
« Reply #10 on: May 31, 2017, 10:50:50 PM »
Quote from: Mr.Puerto on May 31, 2017, 09:11:23 PM
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Quote from: AdmrialThrawn2 on May 31, 2017, 09:22:16 PM
lol

lol indeed. not scribbling notes, but keeping this in mind when i leave high school
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May 31, 2017, 11:05:31 PMReply #11

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« Reply #11 on: May 31, 2017, 11:05:31 PM »
I wonder what words of wisdom Corey can give us... LOL
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Re: Ummm... I need Advice
« Reply #12 on: June 01, 2017, 12:03:21 AM »
Quote from: AdmrialThrawn2 on May 31, 2017, 04:15:51 PM
So I am a high school student, and I their is this girl....
She has red hair, she is very kind, and very sweet.
I kind of have a... (*sigh*) ...crush on her, and I think she may like me back.
the only problem is I am a shitty high school dude who is kind of a loser.
I sometimes get these great jokes in, but I am a fucking terrible at talking to girls...
what should I do?


Ask her out, just be causal about it and then offer a date to something you both like, also add food, everyone loves food.
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June 01, 2017, 01:50:52 AMReply #13

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Re: Ummm... I need Advice
« Reply #13 on: June 01, 2017, 01:50:52 AM »
Quote from: Lord Xizer on June 01, 2017, 12:03:21 AM

Ask her out, just be causal about it and then offer a date to something you both like, also add food, everyone loves food.
I agree with this
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June 01, 2017, 10:49:02 AMReply #14

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Re: Ummm... I need Advice
« Reply #14 on: June 01, 2017, 10:49:02 AM »
same here
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do you know what really makes me mad? that the NR didn't make as many different SSDs as the empire. they would have won much faster had they done so. it's just not fair. but, if their were more NR SSDs, they would be absolute SUPER-CARRIERS.

but, i'm a member of the PA at heart, and my wish here is to join the ranks of grand admirals... sorry, the elite imperial alignment
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« Reply #15 on: June 01, 2017, 11:38:54 AM »
What exactly do you know about her? what kind of food does she like? Does she like to read? Does she play sports? ectr, ectr, ectr...
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« Reply #16 on: June 01, 2017, 08:18:10 PM »
I spoke to her friend and she told be to man up and ask her to home coming.
She also said take her to the movie
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June 01, 2017, 08:59:12 PMReply #17

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« Reply #17 on: June 01, 2017, 08:59:12 PM »
Quote from: AdmrialThrawn2 on June 01, 2017, 08:18:10 PM
I spoke to her friend and she told be to man up and ask her to home coming.
She also said take her to the movie
Do you go to a year round school? Also when is homecoming?

I would try to talk to the girl you like to find out naturally what she likes and what she doesn't. That's the best way to get someone to like you I think. Not only do you know that stuff but you also bond with her in that time.
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June 01, 2017, 09:20:01 PMReply #18

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« Reply #18 on: June 01, 2017, 09:20:01 PM »
Quote from: AdmrialThrawn2 on June 01, 2017, 08:18:10 PM
I spoke to her friend and she told be to man up and ask her to home coming.
She also said take her to the movie

This advice is sound. Act on it.
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June 01, 2017, 10:00:36 PMReply #19

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« Reply #19 on: June 01, 2017, 10:00:36 PM »
well... What movie?
Wonder Women? What kind?
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