Posted by: dajosh42069
« on: March 01, 2018, 11:29:15 AM »Obviously I'm a little late to the party on this one... But.. how'd it go?
OP ever post results? Lol
OP ever post results? Lol
Posted by: True Light Guy
« on: February 19, 2018, 04:51:12 PM »As a man that made it out of the friend zone, just listening to their problems and offering solutions, even if it does not benefit you (like telling her to make it work with her current bf [if applicable], even if he is a douche). a neutral opinion and honest advice is a great foundation of a relationship. (or so my fiance behind me with a weapon tells me).
Posted by: Mr.Puerto
« on: June 07, 2017, 03:55:15 PM »As the kids say these days "slide in those DMs."
Posted by: Helix345
« on: June 07, 2017, 01:12:29 PM »continue talking to her and try to stay relevant to her life, and things will go very smoothly.
Posted by: Illidan Stormrage
« on: June 06, 2017, 10:40:35 PM »hahhahaa
she added me on snap chat.
her friends keep telling me she thinks I am a charming and great guy
yessss *does the thing the collector does in guardians*
she added me on snap chat.
her friends keep telling me she thinks I am a charming and great guy
yessss *does the thing the collector does in guardians*
Posted by: Pali
« on: June 05, 2017, 05:03:18 PM »well, it's okay. I just never even imagined that anyone would come up with something like this.
The problem may well be that I've seen far too many bits of advice from "Pick-Up Artists" who would mean what you said exactly the way I took it: don't back off no matter what, when she says no she really means yes, etc. And that is indeed truly terrible advice. There is a safe level of showing persistent interest, and you have my apologies for not being charitable enough to assume that was what you were encouraging, but you can absolutely find guys who will teach other guys to disregard consent.
Posted by: kucsidave
« on: June 05, 2017, 06:24:05 AM »well, it's okay. I just never even imagined that anyone would come up with something like this.
Posted by: Pali
« on: June 04, 2017, 09:30:43 PM »duuuude! I didn't told him to go be a creep. I told him that he might need to up his game.
Then you'll have to forgive my misunderstanding of your saying "If she says no then press on hard". I hope you can see how that was open to misinterpretation.
Posted by: Illidan Stormrage
« on: June 04, 2017, 07:30:01 PM »duuuude! I didn't told him to go be a creep. I told him that he might need to up his game.See Pali
It might be just a Hungarian thing, but my best friend was rejected 3 times by a girl, but he didn't gave up on her and eventually the girl said yes and now they are married for 2 years.
DETERMINATION MAN!
Dave was not giving terrible Advice.
Posted by: kucsidave
« on: June 04, 2017, 06:28:03 PM »duuuude! I didn't told him to go be a creep. I told him that he might need to up his game.
It might be just a Hungarian thing, but my best friend was rejected 3 times by a girl, but he didn't gave up on her and eventually the girl said yes and now they are married for 2 years.
DETERMINATION MAN!
It might be just a Hungarian thing, but my best friend was rejected 3 times by a girl, but he didn't gave up on her and eventually the girl said yes and now they are married for 2 years.
DETERMINATION MAN!
Posted by: Pali
« on: June 04, 2017, 02:42:09 AM »sorry man...
I did not mean to be a jerk
does Corey have any advice?
I didn't mean to make you feel like one - you weren't being one at all.
Posted by: Illidan Stormrage
« on: June 03, 2017, 11:46:56 PM »Seriously? If a girl says no - if ANYONE says no regarding damn near anything - take them at their word and respect it. If they're playing hard to get, you're passing up a chance to get with someone willing to play stupid games with you - is that the kind of partner you want? If they're sincere, you're risking restraining orders or jail. You really have no way to tell which, so err on the side of caution and take them at their word.sorry man...
There's also the basic decency of respecting consent, which doesn't just apply to sex but also to general interactions. Do you want someone hanging around after you've told them to leave you alone? Why be the person doing that to someone else? Don't force yourself on others, even in terms of just being around them.
I did not mean to be a jerk
does Corey have any advice?
Posted by: Mr.Puerto
« on: June 03, 2017, 10:26:24 PM »Edit: Turns out what I thought was correct, just some confusion in what was said.
Posted by: Pali
« on: June 03, 2017, 09:01:35 PM »Seriously? If a girl says no - if ANYONE says no regarding damn near anything - take them at their word and respect it. If they're playing hard to get, you're passing up a chance to get with someone willing to play stupid games with you - is that the kind of partner you want? If they're sincere, you're risking restraining orders or jail. You really have no way to tell which, so err on the side of caution and take them at their word.
There's also the basic decency of respecting consent, which doesn't just apply to sex but also to general interactions. Do you want someone hanging around after you've told them to leave you alone? Why be the person doing that to someone else? Don't force yourself on others, even in terms of just being around them.
There's also the basic decency of respecting consent, which doesn't just apply to sex but also to general interactions. Do you want someone hanging around after you've told them to leave you alone? Why be the person doing that to someone else? Don't force yourself on others, even in terms of just being around them.
Posted by: Illidan Stormrage
« on: June 03, 2017, 06:59:00 PM »This is terrible advice that should not be followed.Really Dave has always given great Advice